He kissed you like you were rare. Touched you like you were his. Now you’re lying in bed, wondering if it was love—or lust in disguise. If you’re feeling confused or clingy, you’re not alone. Too many of us mistake sexual chemistry for compatibility and connection—when in reality, it’s just an amazing orgasm mixed with oxytocin and a side of unmet emotional needs. As Mother's Day approaches, we’re bringing you Part 2 of Babies, Boundaries & Bad Decisions—a bold 3-part series on Sex, Soul Ties & Smart Choices so you don’t end up with an unplanned baby. Or a soul tie that should’ve never been made. Every week this #AlignedApril, your Coochie Coaches are unpacking what school, your mama, and your homegirls never fully taught you—how to protect your body, energy, and emotions in a world that glorifies temporary pleasure that leaves women with permanent consequences.
How to Tell If It’s a Soul Tie or a Situationship (With Red Flags to Watch)
💣 Sex ≠ Soulmate. Let’s Stop Pretending It Does. The sex was good. The intimacy? Fire. But here’s the catch: closeness during sex doesn’t mean closeness after. Bonding hormones (oxytocin + dopamine) create the illusion of love and connection. Suddenly, his bare body feels like a warm hug. His statements sound like promises. His silence feels like a puzzle to solve instead of a red flag to walk away from. This isn’t a soul tie. It’s a chemical reaction... paired with unspoken expectations and no emotional safety. 🚩
Signs It’s Not a Soul Tie—It’s Just a Situationship:
You feel more addicted than adored
You're more confused than clear
You stay for the sex but cry after he leaves
You’re romanticizing potential, not reality
You know he’s not emotionally available—but you hope he’ll change
Let’s be honest: The D isn’t that damn good if it’s draining you. You don’t need another man to mirror your abandonment wounds. You need clarity. You need standards. You need to ask: “Does this connection nourish me—or numb me?” Not every vibe deserves a soul tie. Not every man who says "you’re different" deserves a forever spot in your mind—or your womb. This #AlignedApril, we’re gifting you a 30% discount on Undickmatized. This guide will help you:
✨ Untangle lust from love
✨ Set clear emotional and sexual boundaries
✨ Stay grounded when sex gets sticky
✨ Protect your energy like the goddess you are
Because the right D won’t derail you. And the wrong one? Doesn't deserve you. This #AlignedApril, clarity is your protection plan. ✨ Look out for Part 3 next week: Smart Sex Starts With You — Reclaiming Your Body, Boundaries & Birth Control Plan 💊❤️
