Secrets to Stop Accepting the Bare Minimum & Attract High-Value Love 💕

With Valentine’s Day around the corner, let’s get real: Is your man actually showing up for you—or just showing up when he wants something? If your gut says he’s giving the bare minimum, this blog is your sign to stop settling and start healing. We’re your erotic educators and we’re here to help you stop accepting the bare minimum in relationships, especially when the D 🍆 is deceiving and your judgment’s clouded by chemistry instead of consistency.

Break the Cycle of Toxic Attachment

So many women ask, “Why can’t I stop thinking about him even though he treats me like an option?” Sis, you’re not alone. Your attachment to him might be rooted in trauma, low self-worth, or the wild ride of oxytocin-fueled highs. But it’s time to detach from toxic men and stop romanticizing red flags. Your Power Playbook helps you:

• Recognize the red flags you’ve been ignoring

• Break unhealthy emotional attachments

• Learn how to attract high-value, emotionally available men

• Build self-worth that doesn’t bend for breadcrumbs

Know Your Worth  Then Add Tax 

You’re a Queen and Queens don’t chase, beg, or prove their worth to others. You’ve justified his lack of effort, told yourself he’s just “busy,” and clung to the moments when he does show up, even though they never last. When a man wants to be in your life, you won’t have to question it. Undickmatized is your wake-up call and the permission slip you need to stop settling and start living in your power. It’ll teach you how to reduce, release and untangle unhealthy attachments to a person who isn’t willing to or able to meet your needs. So you can cultivate a love where you’re the priority, and not an afterthought. Since 2013, I’ve been an intimacy educator and dating coach (with over a million views on my Tedx Talk) and I’ve poured my knowledge of relationships, intimacy, and attachments into Undickmatized. 

Imagine This:

A relationship where your time is valued. Your love is reciprocated. Your desires are met with action—not empty promises. A love that feels safe, passionate, and prioritized. That’s what’s on the other side of your dick detox. Ready to get Undickmatized and unlock the love you deserve? Click here to grab your Power Playbook and start attracting men who show up, step up, and stay consistent.