Have you ever felt drawn to a man you knew wasn’t good for you (or to you), but still stayed because of his good 🍆? If you romanticize red flags 🚩or he’s inconsistent and not treating you right, but you still keep holding on, we’re gonna hold your hand when we tell you you’re dickmatized and deserve better. The reason you feel so attached to a man who isn’t treating you right is because of Oxytocin. Which is the love and attachment hormone produced in women during childbirth and orgasm. Therefore, a woman will feel the same love and attachment she has for her child, for the man giving her mind blowing orgasms 🤯 But your coochie cousins have got the secret to help you decenter that D and recenter yourself with Undickmatized. Keep reading to discover more!
Oxytocin: The Love & Attachment Hormone
Oxytocin is referred to as the “love hormone,” because the highest surge of oxytocin is released after orgasm and during post-sex cuddling. This surge makes you deeply connected to the person you’re sleeping with even if the connection isn’t healthy, safe or fulfilling. In this state of d-lusion, your obsession with a man stems from the intensity of the physical connection. It’s when the D is so good you start to catch feelings. But in reality, you're just catching feelings for the DICK. Many of us have found ourselves in situations where we give our hearts and bodies to men who don’t deserve us. But why settle when you can d-tach, understand the role oxytocin plays in clouding your judgment, and stop making excuses for someone who clearly isn’t meeting your needs with your Power Playbook here? 💁🏾♀️💁🏽♀️💁🏻♀️
The High of Toxic Love: The Invisible Chains of a Trauma Bond
When you turn to him to cuddle after getting your back blown out, is the period when your brain is most chemically vulnerable. Post-orgasm cuddling triggers the highest surge of oxytocin and this is when he has you wrapped around his fingers. For most of us, this isn’t just a passing high because oxytocin lingers in our system for days, weeks, or even months 🤯 Which can get you sprung, loyal, and devoted to the D 🍆 However he’s not pussc whipped by you because men produce oxytocin levels so low that it’s almost undetectable. Meaning he can have great sex with you and never increase emotional attachment. However, in some cases, his attachment will decrease due to post nut clarity. Meanwhile you’re developing soul ties, lowering the bar to hell, and becoming a-dickted to the D🍆 just because of the Oxytocin that has clouded your judgment😩
If you’re ready to stop going back to a liar out of loneliness, stop reconciling with a cheater because you’re comfortable and stop fkn with a F-boy out of fear of starting over, you need Power Playbook today! Undickmatized is your blueprint to refocus yourself in connections that align with your goal and soul and when you step up, you own your happiness and embrace your unshakable power. Why wait another second? The time is NOW ❤️
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