Let's get real for a second. Many of us can relate to being in a relationship with someone who is treating us less than we deserve, and instead of releasing the connection to make room for better. We try to change the guy we’re with to become the guy we want. And instead of clocking the red flags, you convince yourself he’s got potential or that you can “fix” him. If it feels like we’re telling your business, there’s a chance you’ve played Barbara The Builder in your previous or current relationship(s). This often happens when you’re attached to a toxic partner with good D 🍆. Yet in reality, he’s only good TO you in bed but not good FOR you‼️ As your Erotic Educators, we want you to detach from the D, stop wasting the best years of your life with a bare minimum bum. And find a partner who aligns with your goals and soul ❤️🩹
Don’t Settle For Dusties 🚫
You cannot love a man into leadership. You cannot motivate a man into provision. You cannot submit to a man who isn’t even leading himself. If you haven’t clocked Teyana’s latest tea, she recently divorced from Iman who was emotionally abusive and mismanaged their finances. All which are common traits of a toxic partner 🙄 But Teyana IS THAT GIRL! She confidently walked away from the d!ck, and rumour has it she’s together with Aaron Pierre 🦁👀 Society tells women to be patient, understanding and hold a man down while he figures it out. But girl, that man is not your project to work on! Don’t let the patriarchy trick you into believing you have failed or aren’t enough if you walk away. Letting go is never easy, but with the help of your Undickmatized guide, you can experience pleasure without pain and find a man who’ll prioritize you and put you on a pedestal.
Broken Crayons Still Color– Free Yourself From The Illusion of Potential
As women, we love sooo hard, and when we see a man struggling we step into the role of fixer, believing that if we just love harder, sacrifice more, and endure longer, we can save him. But you can’t, and the longer you stay, the more you lose yourself. Until a person is healed they’ll be toxic to people trying to love them. A man who refuses to fix himself is not your assignment as mentioned before, you have a future that deserves more. You are still extremely beautiful, sexy, and worthy and there’s so much good out there for you. It doesn’t matter if you have kids, or if you’re in your 30s, 40s, or beyond, don’t let your past or your sacrifices trick you into believing that this is the best you can get. There is ALWAYS better. I want to reassure you that the right man will love all of you, including the life you’ve built. But you have to show up for yourself first. Undickmatized will help you learn to stop nurturing potential and chasing pipe dreams so you can save yourself and let the right love find you ❤️
You are meant for a love that nourishes, uplifts you, and reminds you of your worth—But knowing you deserve it isn’t enough—you have to choose it, every single day. If you’ve ever felt manipulated or taken advantage of because of your emotional investment, then you need your Undickmatized guide , it’s your compass to stop making excuses for a partner who clearly isn’t meeting your needs and start aligning yourself with high-quality men who prioritize, pamper and dont play about you helping you realize that you have always been the prize, the light, and the woman worthy of more than just “almost”, walk away from what’s breaking you, and open yourself up to the love that sees you get Undickmatized to stop settling and start thriving TODAY!
