The Reason You’re Not Enjoying Oral Sex—and How to Change That

I’m Annie—your pleasure coach, your reminder that settling for mid intimacy is no longer on the menu, and your biggest supporter in reclaiming your sensual power. If you’ve ever felt like oral sex is more of a performance than a pleasure... you’re not alone. In my twenties, I told myself I should be grateful just to be getting head. Even when it was half-hearted, awkward, or unsatisfying. I smiled. I moaned. I faked it. But deep down, I was screaming for more.

The Truth About Oral Sex for Women

Let’s get real: Too many women are…

• Faking orgasms to protect egos
• Settling for inconsistent or lackluster head
• Silencing their needs for fear of being “too much”

This isn’t just about head—it’s about being heard, held, and honored. That’s why we created The Munch Manual (free for a limited time), to help you reclaim the pleasure you’ve always deserved but maybe never had the tools, support, or confidence to claim. From childhood, girls are taught to be nice, grateful or avoid making others uncomfortable. And that conditioning shows up in bed. But here’s the radical truth: Mediocre oral sex is not just disappointing, it's disrespectful.

Meet the Women We’re Unpacking This Month

That’s why this #MunchMay, we’re inviting you into your Receiving Era—no guilt, no shrinking, no pretending. The Munch Manual: The Go-to Guide For Getting More and Better Head will unpack the real reasons so many women feel invisible or unsatisfied in the bedroom—and what to do about it. In the guide, you may see yourself in one or all of these:

• No Head Nelly – A selfless pleaser who gives endlessly but rarely receives.
• Halfway Head Hellen – She gets some oral... but it’s inconsistent, rushed, or obligation-driven.
• Mid Head Mia – She receives oral regularly, but it's meh. She fakes satisfaction to avoid discomfort.

Sound familiar? You deserve peak pleasure. Not just on your birthday, special occasions, or as an apology. But, as the baseline. And we’re going to help you get there with The Munch Manual. We’ll cover:

• Why feedback isn’t “nagging”—it’s necessary
• Why bad head isn’t just disappointing—it’s disrespectful
• How to tell him his oral game needs work (with love)
• How to confidently step into your Receiving Era—with no hesitation, guilt, or apology

Welcome to your pleasure reclamation journey. We’re so glad you’re here ✨💞

Sending you all my love & care,

Annie

Head Coach 😉 & Founder of the V Vitamins