Unscripted: A Guide to Living and Loving Outside the Sexual Norm
Tired of pretending your sexuality fits into someone else’s script?
Unscripted is your permission slip to live, love, and desire on your own terms.
This guide explores nontraditional sexual identities, orientations, and relationship styles—from demisexual to pan, poly, and everything in between.
Through stories, reflections, and exercises, it helps you understand who you are, what you want, and how to express it unapologetically.
Whether you’ve always felt “different” or are just starting to question the script, this is your roadmap to self-acceptance, authenticity, and pleasure without limits.
This Guide is for you IF…
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If you’re questioning everything you’ve been taught about sex
The rules were never written for all of us. This guide helps you unlearn shame, rewrite your sexual story, and build a version of pleasure that feels real—not performative.
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If your desire doesn’t follow any “one-size-fits-all” blueprint
Whether your libido is high, low, fluid, or situational, Unscripted helps you understand your patterns and make peace with how your body and desire actually work.
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If you crave deep connection that doesn’t look “traditional”
Monogamous, poly, open, kinky, ace—it’s all valid. This guide helps you define intimacy on your own terms and communicate your needs without shame or fear.
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If you’re done shrinking your sexuality to make others comfortable
You don’t need permission to evolve. This guide celebrates every phase of your sexual growth and reminds you that your identity can be fluid—and still completely valid.
What's Inside The Guide
What's Inside The Sexuality Guide
Freedom, Redefined
Inside, you’ll find exercises and insights to help you untangle old conditioning, explore your desires, and create a version of sexuality that actually fits you—not the one society handed you.
Why do you need this Guide
Because You Deserve to Be Seen, Not Simplified
Too often, sexuality is flattened into categories that erase nuance, curiosity, and complexity. Unscripted brings it all back—your layers, your contradictions, your unique flavor of desire. This is your invitation to embrace the in-between, honor your identity, and love without limits.
Because “Normal” Was Never the Goal
Most of us were taught that sex and love should look one way—hetero, monogamous, predictable. But that story leaves too many of us feeling broken, confused, or invisible. Unscripted helps you rewrite the narrative, embrace the full spectrum of your desire, and find confidence in the identity that’s always been yours.
It’s Time to Live Unscripted
Meet the Minds Behind the Movement
Juliana Alpizar - Author
Hi, I’m Julie—sexologist, intimacy coach, and professional myth-buster of what “normal” looks like in bed. Through Unscripted, I invite you to ditch the rules and explore sexuality as a living, breathing, ever-changing part of who you are. I’ve spent years helping women, queer folks, and curious souls make peace with their desires and find joy in their difference. This isn’t about fitting in—it’s about finally feeling at home in your own pleasure.
Annie White - Author
I’m Annie—the founder of V Vitamins and the visionary who believes pleasure is personal, political, and powerful.
To me, Unscripted is more than a guide—it’s a love letter to everyone who’s ever felt “too different” for the mainstream story of sex and love. Through V Vitamins, I’ve made it my mission to create tools, products, and spaces where women and marginalized voices can explore their sensuality safely, proudly, and on their own terms. You deserve to be celebrated—not simplified—and this guide is one more way we’re rewriting what “normal” looks like together.