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A Better Listener, A Better Lover: A Guide to Listening with LUV

A Better Listener, A Better Lover: A Guide to Listening with LUV

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Is Your Relationship Full of Words but Empty of Connection?

Okay, babe, can we just talk about it?

Have you ever lain next to someone after sex and thought:
“That was fine… but I didn’t really feel seen.”

Or maybe you’ve had to repeat yourself for the third time, explaining what you like, what you need, or how you feel—and they still don’t get it?

You’re not alone.
And no, you’re not asking for too much.
You’re just asking to be heard. Read more
Because let’s be honest…
The sex wasn’t necessarily bad.
He just wasn’t actually listening. 😮‍💨
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💬 This guide is for you if:

You’re tired of feeling like you’re “too emotional” when you just want to connect

You’re exhausted from faking moans just to keep the vibe going

You’re the emotional caretaker in every relationship, without anyone truly holding space for you

You’re over the half-listening, distracted nods, and performative “uh-huhs”

You’ve got so much love and pleasure to give, but need someone who can meet you halfway

Listen, we created this guide not just for better communication…

But because we wanted better intimacy for you. The kind that makes you melt. The kind where you say what you want, and it lands.

If you’re ready to feel received, not just tolerated—this is for you.

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🎧 A Better Listener, A Better Lover: A Guide to Listening with LUV

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    This is not a boring “communication tool.”

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    This is an intimacy ignition switch. 💥
I’m Ready to Listen with LUV!

Inside, I’ll walk you through:

  • Listening Breakdown Effects

    What really happens when listening breaks down (hint: resentment creeps in and desire fades fast)

  • Faking Pleasure Explained

    Why so many women fake pleasure—and how listening can change that completely

  • Building Emotional Safety

    How to create emotional safety that makes your partner soften, open up, and actually want to please you

  • Delicious Sexual Attunement

    What “sexual attunement” looks like (spoiler: it’s delicious)

💡 The LUV Method:

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    → Listen without defensiveness

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     → Understand without assuming

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    → Validate even when you disagree

 💡 How to use LUV in sex talks, fights, feedback, and flirty convos

💡 And what to do if you’re the one who shuts down when it’s time to listen

Elevate Your Pleasure Now!

🔥 This guide is for:

  • 🧠 Silent Overthinker

    The overthinker who’s always reading between the lines—because no one ever asks what you feel

  • 💬 Too Much Woman

    The woman who’s been “too much” for men who barely gave her the bare minimum

  • 💋 Mutual Communication

    The partner who wants communication that’s mutual, not one-sided

  • 💞 Emotional Foreplay

    The lover who wants foreplay to start with emotional presence, not just physical touch

🗣️ Here’s the truth:

You don’t need to be more patient.
You don’t need to talk less.
You don’t need to make your needs “easier to hear.”

You just need to be heard by someone who’s actually listening.

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I’m Ready to Listen with LUV!

Let’s change the way we cummunicate—so our hearts and our bodies get exactly what they need.

Because when someone really hears you, it changes everything. 💋

I’m Ready to Listen with LUV!

The Visionaries Behind it All

Annie White - Author

I’m Annie—pleasure advocate, certified receiver, and your Head coach for unforgettable oral experiences🍯 For years, I attracted partners who wanted to please me, but I stayed quiet about what actually satisfied me. Therapy helped me find my voice, refine my standards, and ask for more—without guilt or games. The result? Back-to-back, mind-blowing orgasms became my new normal. Now, I’m sharing transformational tools, scripts, and mindset shifts that awaken your capacity for soul-stirring pleasure that transcends the bedroom. If you’re ready to speak up, soften in, and stop faking the funk, this Bliss Blueprint is your permission slip to receive like the goddess you are👑💖💫

Juliana Alpizar - Author

I’m Julie — but in this space, you can call me The Sexpert. I’m a certified sexologist, coach, and intimacy educator who’s dedicated my life to helping women, femmes, and non-binary babes reclaim their erotic power — not as a fantasy, but as a daily, lived truth.
At V Vitamins, I bring expertise with lived experience, cultural nuance, and a deep commitment to pleasure-based liberation. My work centers women who’ve been ignored, shamed, or erased from mainstream wellness. I speak directly to those of us who are plus-sized, queer, kinky, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, or simply tired of being told we’re “too much.” I’m here to say: you are not too much—you are just right. And you deserve tools, language, and rituals that honor your desires without apology.
In this guide, you’ll see my fingerprints all over the frameworks, the spicy examples, the self-coaching tools, and the loving call-ins. This is more than just a workbook. It’s a portal back to your inner erotic leader. And I’m honored to walk this path with you.